Making decisions, whether it’s choosing from a menu or deciding on a movie, is a universal experience. Yet, for some, indecisiveness is more than an occasional annoyance; it’s a constant presence that impacts their lives and relationships. Malaika Arora, in a candid conversation on her son’s podcast “Dumb Biryani,” humorously discussed the shared traits of her son Arhaan and ex-husband Arbaaz Khan, shedding light on their penchant for indecision.
In jest, Malaika remarked on the striking similarities in mannerisms between Arhaan and his father, Arbaaz. However, she also touched upon a less flattering resemblance: their indecisiveness. From trivial choices like shirt colors to morning meal selections, Malaika teased Arhaan about his difficulty in making decisions, attributing this trait to their shared genetic pool.
Delving deeper into the psychology of indecisiveness, Mumbai-based relationship psychotherapist Aarti Chawla highlighted its roots in a fear of making the wrong choice, often stemming from childhood experiences. These experiences, she explained, can erode one’s confidence in decision-making, leading to avoidance of taking ownership of choices altogether.
Chawla emphasized that indecisiveness manifests in various forms, from analysis paralysis before every decision to perpetual second-guessing. Notably, she pointed out that such traits can be learned behaviors, often inherited from parental figures, as evidenced by Arhaan’s similarity to his father.
“Just like other facets of personality, indecisiveness can be passed down from one generation to the next,” Chawla remarked, underlining the influence of familial dynamics on individual decision-making patterns.
Ultimately, the conversation between Malaika and Arhaan offered a lighthearted yet insightful exploration of the complexities of indecisiveness and its familial origins. Through humor and understanding, they shed light on a common struggle shared by many.